Exploring the impossible trade-offs families make to put food on the table, and the resilience keeping them afloat in backyard gardens to food stokvels. In this series, community journalists enter vulnerable homes to reveal how families fight hunger.
When there is not enough food in Sekhwele Mnisiâs home, he tells his children to drink water and have faith that God will provide.
The 66-year-old widower lives with his three adult children and two young grandchildren in a two-bedroom house in Ga-Motodi village near Burgersfort in Limpopo.
Mnisiâs oldest daughter, 24-year-old Karabo, and 19-year-old son, Thoriso, are also unemployed.
âMy other daughter, Dipolelo, is 21 but still attends high school.â
Karabo has two young children, a two-year-old toddler and an eight-month-old baby. âWe have many mouths to feed.â
The pensioner says he does odd jobs when they are available so that the family can eat. âMost times I accept food as payment,â he says.
Grants are not enough
With Mnisiâs old-age grant and his grandchildrenâs child support grants, the family has a monthly income of R3,460.
He says R1,500 goes towards food for four adults and two children.
This works out to R375 per week, or R50 per day to feed the whole family. The rest of their money must pay for other essentials like water, wood, paraffin and candles.
When food runs out, Mnisiâs children sometimes spend hours at neighboursâ homes. âWe pretend to watch television until they dish out an evening meal,â says Dipolelo.
âl was tired of bothering our neighbours instead of being grateful.â
Money for food goes towards wood and water instead.
Mnisi says the two-bedroom RDP brick house that he shares with his children and grandchildren is falling apart.
Inside the kitchen, the cupboards stand bare. A few slices of bread lie on the kitchen table.
There is no fridge, no electricity and no running water. Four big water containers take up most of the kitchen space.
âThere is no running tap water in the community, so we pay a water tanker to deliver water.â
The family spends about R400 a month on water and another R400 a month on paraffin and candles,â Mnisi says.
Their income must also cover the cost of firewood.
Mnisi says they cannot afford to buy food in bulk and without electricity they canât refrigerate anything.
Life changed after their mother died.
Mnisi says he has struggled to support his family since his wife died in 2012.
His children were 10, seven and five years old at the time.
âShe cooked for the family, did their laundry and she was showing them love,â he says.
âShe was a hard worker, she grew crops and vegetables to help feed the family and to sell to generate income for the survival of the family.â
Mnisiâs youngest daughter says her motherâs death left the family struggling.
âOur biggest sin was that our mother passed away when we were very young,â says Dipolelo.
No electricity
The family says their home remains the only one in the village without electricity despite repeated attempts to get connected.
âWe sleep with one eye open during the night in fear of being raped or die inside this run-down brick house,â says Dipolelo.
Mnisi says he continues to look for odd jobs to help support his family.
And when there is nothing left to eat, he tells his children to drink water and have faith that God will provide. DM
First published by Health-e News as part of an eight-part series about food insecurity in South Africa.